What is charisma, and how to become charismatic
Charm cannot be decomposed into formulas. It is clear that people like beautiful, smart and strong people. But not all charismatic leaders possessed these qualities. There was also something hidden in them, a special energy, charm. What is charisma? and is it possible to purchase it?
What does this look like?
There are people who can attract the attention of a huge number of people. Once they enter the room, all eyes turn on them. When they leave, those present try to imitate them (with varying degrees of success). They have natural magnetism, hidden power. “What is charisma?” - it is worth asking them.
Is it possible to develop?
There is an opinion that this is an innate quality, and all leadership trainings can only teach a person to imitate the behavioral techniques of charismatic people. Should I agree with this? It is not worth it, because a change in behavior also changes the content of a person’s personality; he receives feedback of a new type, which radically changes the psyche. Therefore, the development of charisma - a worthy goal and quite achievable.Even if you just have to start with imitation.
Strength as a charm factor
What is charisma? Between confidence and this quality it is impossible to put an equal sign, but if you learn to show confidence, then the indicators of charisma will begin to rise before your eyes. Confidence allows others to relax, relying on the responsibility of the leader. In addition, few people deeply analyze other people's abilities, and often they perceive a person exactly as he presents himself. So the more confident you are, the higher the opinion of others about you. In addition, people are inert, they do not like to change their minds, and your blunders may simply not notice, so as not to tear down an already established model in your head.
On the positive
Focus on talking positive. A charming leader from a loser is distinguished by the ability to create images of a goal, to have a positive vision of the future, and it is better to have a future approximate rather than a distant future. If a person is constantly outraged, criticizes and makes comments, then his circle of contacts is narrowed - there are enough negative emotions in life, so why bother?
What is voice charisma? This ability to talk so that the audience had a strong emotional reaction. That is, it pauses in the right place, a beautiful timbre of the voice, the speech is relaxed, energetic, weighty. Does the charisma of voice develop? Yes, there are special exercises for the voice. However, without the development of logic, you will not be able to speak convincingly, because pauses are not placed randomly, but in accordance with the logical division of the text into fragments.
Seem small, you have to be
To seem charismatic, you need to feel inner confidence. Charismatic people like what they do, like the way they look, and more - they are delighted with the people with whom they spend their time. Therefore, you need to correct the lack of appearance, do your favorite work and create yourself a suitable circle of acquaintances in which you can clearly express yourself.